Is Porn your Side B@tch?! October 5th

I'm beginning to wonder if my porn watching is too much. Let's face it my ass is as single as a dollar bill, so one moment my sex life is booming and I have a steady piece knocking it down. And then the next minute I'm having an extremely dry season, since I'm also quick to cut a brother off! But be clear despite what sexual climate I'm having, porn has been my constant!

When I was younger porn was dirty. I had no interest in it. Nope not Wayne's daughter. It wasn't till my only adult relationship( the 5year bid) that I was introduced to it. It soon became a thing that we enjoyed to watch together, to be honest it brought us closer. Back then my favorite porn star was Lexington Steel! Shit! That chocolate man, and my boo would always make sure his "nana" ( shut up that was his nic name for me) always had her Lex videos.

Shit if it wasn't for my EX and porn I would no nothing about self pleasure, which I believe is essential for your mental health, ok my mental health. He was the one who not only showed me where my clitoris was, he also showed me what massaging it could do! I'm telling you my butt was at least 22-23 and its like it was A New Day Boy!! I remember it like it was yesterday, when he 1st told me to rub it during.. Back then I thought to myself " WTF? Could this dude be anymore lazy?? Now I gotta make myself cum, shit isn't that your job"!!

But now I'm happy he did, because now I can get this monkey off my back anytime, no problem!
I'm mean come on, if I was having sex regularly maybe I could call a upon a particular session for inspiration, but no such luck in my world! I need video to bring it all back!

A couple of my girlfriends recently confessed through my own admissions that they too are routinely checking for some smut! Lol.

We are all ask the question, are we watching it a bit too much? Has all the nastiness that we're watching cause us to want different ish in the bedroom? I gotta tell you for me it totally has! Lol. I look at it as enticing instructional video, safer than picking that shit up off the streets. Lol. It has definitely increased my interest in shit talking!! Oooo baby I love a good shit talker! For me it helps to keep me in that " Sasha Fierce" attitude during the session. Other wise my mind might wander! Also keeps me up on all the nasty shit, I could say and or contribute during.

To be honest with you, I visit my taboo world a good 4 to 5 times a week, and don't let it be a rainy saturday!! Shoooooot!!!


I'm not using a dildo though, I rather have the flesh for that! I just give my area a little massage to let her know how much I care! Lol. Ahhh its just soo much easier. Its a quick nut then I'm on my way. No drama, no frustration based around his short comings!

So how important of a role does porn play in your life or relationship?

I know I'm not alone who else is Porn-ING- IT-UP??

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