He thought it was a good Kiss?!

Hiii
Happy New Year! (All late yes I know) But sometimes-real life is slow :/

I am soo a believer in a kiss can make it or break it, I've actually been running that line since the 7th grade you can ask my bestie Aisha! But in order for the kiss to seal it, don't people normally give off kissing signs? And it’s not me applying my lip-gloss buddy! Geez!

Case and point the other night someone forced a kiss moment when there was none. We had just finished spending a couple of hours hanging out at this sports bar downtown and we were proceeding to his car. I guess I said something witty or funny so he thought "good moment", because as my hand approached the car door to open it, he called me to come to where he was standing in front of the car. I thought maybe he was about to smoke a cig and didn't want me to just plop my ass in the car just yet. So I walked over and said, “what's up”? That's when he goes in for the kiss!! Immediately my mouth tensed up, all these thoughts are running through my mind like " “how did we get here? Really, you want to kiss me after eating a burger with onions”? So I tell myself over and over" Nicole relax maybe this won't be soo bad if you relax your jaw and your mouth stop contracting all muscles! Mouth looking like a prolapsed bottom!" Lol

It wasn't working so I pull out early, and I say nothing while walking back to the car. I just love to kiss so much, for me it can make me feel like making love you know, make me that hot! Is that just me?? But anyway when I got in the car he said," that was great!" He loved it! I just smiled. "Awkard"!

I mean I think all of you can tell by now, that I'm not afraid to make a move when I'm ready and want too. I just think eh the kiss happened too soon. Although we had a pretty chill time, and we will probably hang out again that doesn't mean we need to be all kissy kissy just yet. Its different strokes for different folks, some folks will get stroked quick and others have to wait. Lol.

He did say some interesting stuff, like he randomly checks a woman's bathroom and if he doesn't see Summer's Eve he isn't licking it! Lol. Yup that's his deal breaker!! Have you ever heard that??!!! Only me! Oh and he thinks girls who notoriously double text are sexy and cute. Apparently that tells him that she's secure enough in herself that she doesn't care what he thinks she wants her response Now! "Interesting"

Wow! Who knew??!!! I tell you, men love us when we act crazy!! Lol!

So in efforts to avoid another oral catastrophe I decided to jot down some signs I think are pretty universal that a woman wants to be kissed, although I think most women i.e. "Me" just make it happen all on my own.

• She might lick and bite her lips constantly! That’s goodie although again for me I’m a bit of an LL Cool J chick always licking my lips so this might be the bamboozle with me! Lol
• Heavy touching, caressing you’re hand a subtle back rub..
• A bit too “touchy feely means touch me “

Ahhh you get the picture, in the words of my big homie “ Know your Personnel”


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