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Hello good people.
Ahh what's up?
Still no sexin going on! "Whatever" So with that said today's story isn't just about some stupid boy, its also about my girl Jenny! You guys know how I love my Golden Girls.
Although I'm the smallest one I have the most fire! And when something goes wrong in their world, I take it very personally and I try my best to rectify the situation.
Picture it, its the year 2000 in boogie down Bronx, my cousin and I are living together. Upon hearing that her man was cheating and doing her dirty, we head out to the club!"F*ck him girl f*ck him" As soon as I see him in the club I GO OFF, all in his face," what you think this is fool?" And in foxy brown &lil kim mode we go outside and gear up to slash his tires!". That's what friends are for! Lol We Break for one another!
Fast forward present day, still dealing with stupid boys, unfortunately this stupid boy has played a part in Jenny and I temporarily breaking up.
Now as I unload yet another personal story on you guys, I truly want your advice," AM I bugging?"
Here goes : " Que Ashanti, Foolish for the soundtrack."
Jenny has been dating this guy "Travis" for a while now. One minute things appear cool, he's up under her all day every day."Come meet my mama!" And the next he's M.I.A. "Yup typical stupid boy bullshit!" But Travis always pulls this episode because he insists upon squatting at Jenny's apartment when she's not home! " Huh?" Exactly! Dude is like a nomad! He's supposedly in between situations (mama house and Nowhere's-ville) so when he's hanging out in the city, he likes the convenience of being able to stay at her crib. When her response isn't what he wants to hear "No", he goes disappearing! I'm talking about for a week and some change. He ignores all her reaching out attempts, literally disappears!
When they finally do speak, they go at it! She calls it quits. Of course every time she tells me this I become enraged! "He's using you!" I Bark. "Cut the shit! He's a bum! You can't trust that fool!" Now initially she might not be able to swallow what I'm saying, but we always get back on track. Through his actions she realizes" Nic's right, I don't need him"!
But you know how this story goes, don't cha? They need up getting back together! I don't judge, I love her! Now here is when shit gets crazy! He pulls another stinkin' episode! This time when he pulls his disappearing act, its followed by his" ex girl" calling Jenny's job! " Leave my man alone, get a clue" wtf?? Say what now? Yup" ex girl" was calling Jenny's phone and job! When she finally got a hold of that Loser! He admits to be fucking "ex girl", even in ol girl's presence while Jenny ripped him a new one! Talking bout " she went through my phone and got your number!" "Well that's even more proof how p@ssy he is, he got you all out there like that" I screamed!
Whew !I get heated just thinking about the level of disrespect! So you already know how mad I got when Jenny told me they got back together!!!" What?! You take him back with no real time in the Dog house, are you serious? You know the only way to train a dog is to rub his nose in his shit! Yelling is useless!" I got so mad I told her I can't speak to you anymore, I need to take a break from our friendship! I just felt at the time like that's the only thing I could do or say, to such insane behavior! I'm going to act crazy too! Am I wrong? Well let me say this I know I'm wrong to a certain extent, because our friendship is more important. And I'm sure she knows if she needs me I would be there in a second but I wanted to ring her neck! I seem to have a hard time sitting on the sidelines watching a freak show!
What should I do? Am I totally F-ed up? Does anyone understand where I'm coming from? Or should I run to Jenny with my tail between my legs and tell her Sorry :(
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Hey Nicole, I don't think your messed up at all. Her stupid decision just pissed you off. Your just fed up,there's nothing wrong with it. Maybe she needs to find out the hard way that this a$$ is a loser. So be her friend but when it comes to him just brush it off and say nothing because it doesn't matter what you say she won't listen to you anyway, as you could already see. It's pointless for real. Your still her girl no matter what so things will get back to where they are in due time. There's no need to say sorry because you didn't do anything wrong you were just saying how you felt with her decision. I totally hear you where your coming from I would probably do the same thing. It's annoying to hear the same ish over and over again and they go back to the same sh*t. What's the point of saying anything. SMH!!!Your still be friends no matter what. sh*t happens we can't agree all the time, then you wouldn't be yourself. Later mama hope things work out between ya, no loser is ever worth it.
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ReplyDeleteok here it is.. why you getting all shit crazy over his actions? hes being himself.. a boy. she likes it and wants that in her life.. a boy. she doesnt feel shes ready to step it up for a Man shes still immature. so dont get mad... just be her friend but dont get too crazy cause shes still a girl.. not a woman. just let her keep making the same mistakes.. and dont judge her or him. wait till she learns banging her head against the same wall wont make it move and thus your learning this too... why trip when shes not taking it serious like you are.
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