I Thought I liked him then we had Sex!

Hi everybody,

Today's story is one I can totally relate to. I can honestly say I'm not sure how I feel about someone until we have sex! "Oh you think I'm crazy?" Lol. Seriously I just can't! The way I see it, even if he's a really cool guy and we seem to make sense, if our bodies can't talk, we have nothing! "Let me hear your body talk, let's get physical!" I'm too much of a sexual person to really have to reinvent the wheel sexually! Yea I hear everyone saying sex isn't everything, and its not. But checking my list of priorities that one is a biggie! Talking to my older girlfriends some married, some divorced, and you know the song that they always seem to sing, “please you don't need sex, its fades after years anyway, his love, security, that's what's important". And I hear them I really, really do. I was in a relationship for years, sometimes the sex was poppin’ and other times, he's sneaking in from the side. Lol "Lazy Smashing!” But come on I'm only 30 years old, my sex life is supposed to bring the fire!

Why would I sign on to do any major time with someone, who couldn't satisfy my sexual needs? Case in point: A good friend of mine Janet started talking to this guy. These two completely hit it off; Janet is usually the girl who bashes relationships and men all together. But admittingly she was feeling this brother. Well, that is until they had sex! See Janet's new boo gave new definition to the word minuteman! “I didn't know they still made those!" Yup brother couldn't make it through a song! Determined not to give up, and sadden by the thought that she would have to drop this hero turned into a zero, she gave him another chance!

“You already, know that quick shit would have freaked me out and would have me running for the hills chanting down the good dick demigods! And just like I knew he would, Janet's boo failed again!

When asked what she should do. I told her to talk to him about it, since she clearly likes him. Let's face he should know how to control his nut by now, damn it! But still, have some open dialogue. I heard drinking some Guinness stout, my do the trick, either way there are stuff on the market to help. So if he's worth it, give it the ol’ college try, but honestly the 3-strike rule should apply to this repeat offender

Only Me I Swear! April 7th

Ahhh Hi Guys!

So yesterday was a big day for me, I started a new job! I joined a great group of girls working in the Talent department @ BET, booking all shows including 106/Park, the Deal, and Specials! Yay!! Of course I was on a high, being back in my element. Immediately after I went out for Sushi and Sake with my new co works! The girls and I had the best time, I of course went in on the Sake and I was feeling fine!
The night was still kinda early so I took the train home. As soon I get on 2 train, I noticed that there a little space next to a very handsome Jamaican man, I knew he was Jamaican because the flag was on his little bracelet." Perfect! I'll sit next to him!" I politely asked him to make some room and he did so but barely looked up at me. Feeling the sake and high on my cool, I struck up a conversation by peeking over his shoulder at he was reading. "What is that about?" He told me it was blueprints for Plumbers! Cool, I'm thinking he's good with his hands :-). He seemed to be very engrossed with what he was reading, so I let him continue for a little before I interjected again and said " explain what I'm seeing to me" lol. It must have been the Sake!

This time our conversation flowed! He was nice, cute and funny. His name is actually Tyrone! I had to let him know that although I was enjoying the conversation I had to go, my stop was approaching. He quickly stated you could stay on and then just take the bus. I explained to him that I wasn't familiar with the bus, to that he stated he would accompany me on journey! Now I normally don't condone picking men up on the train and then allowing the to escort you home, but it could have been the sake or maybe I was just feeling his flow! Whatever it was I was still enjoying my night so I kept it going.

Once we got off the bus I was able to size the athletic 6'3 brother up, he was Nice. We walked about 2 short blocks home,and sat on the porch and talked some more, before I knew it was 1 am! I couldn't believe the time flew that fast, so I said I have to call you a cab I need to hit the sack!

This is when shit went Left like it always does in Nicole's world! I picked up his phone to call the cab, only to find out his phone is disconnected! He can't make outgoing calls!! Wtf??!! Are you kidding me?? Did we really just sit here and discuss my need to be with a Man that could handle his man shit, and this brother's phone is cut off! Needless to less that killed the whole night for me, I called the cab on my phone and sent his butt home! He seemed embarrassed as he should be, "Good Night!"

So can you believe this? Do you think I'm bugging would you ever call this dude, well you know when he's phone is back on? Lol