Hello good people.
Ahh what's up?
Still no sexin going on! "Whatever" So with that said today's story isn't just about some stupid boy, its also about my girl Jenny! You guys know how I love my Golden Girls.
Although I'm the smallest one I have the most fire! And when something goes wrong in their world, I take it very personally and I try my best to rectify the situation.
Picture it, its the year 2000 in boogie down Bronx, my cousin and I are living together. Upon hearing that her man was cheating and doing her dirty, we head out to the club!"F*ck him girl f*ck him" As soon as I see him in the club I GO OFF, all in his face," what you think this is fool?" And in foxy brown &lil kim mode we go outside and gear up to slash his tires!". That's what friends are for! Lol We Break for one another!
Fast forward present day, still dealing with stupid boys, unfortunately this stupid boy has played a part in Jenny and I temporarily breaking up.
Now as I unload yet another personal story on you guys, I truly want your advice," AM I bugging?"
Here goes : " Que Ashanti, Foolish for the soundtrack."
Jenny has been dating this guy "Travis" for a while now. One minute things appear cool, he's up under her all day every day."Come meet my mama!" And the next he's M.I.A. "Yup typical stupid boy bullshit!" But Travis always pulls this episode because he insists upon squatting at Jenny's apartment when she's not home! " Huh?" Exactly! Dude is like a nomad! He's supposedly in between situations (mama house and Nowhere's-ville) so when he's hanging out in the city, he likes the convenience of being able to stay at her crib. When her response isn't what he wants to hear "No", he goes disappearing! I'm talking about for a week and some change. He ignores all her reaching out attempts, literally disappears!
When they finally do speak, they go at it! She calls it quits. Of course every time she tells me this I become enraged! "He's using you!" I Bark. "Cut the shit! He's a bum! You can't trust that fool!" Now initially she might not be able to swallow what I'm saying, but we always get back on track. Through his actions she realizes" Nic's right, I don't need him"!
But you know how this story goes, don't cha? They need up getting back together! I don't judge, I love her! Now here is when shit gets crazy! He pulls another stinkin' episode! This time when he pulls his disappearing act, its followed by his" ex girl" calling Jenny's job! " Leave my man alone, get a clue" wtf?? Say what now? Yup" ex girl" was calling Jenny's phone and job! When she finally got a hold of that Loser! He admits to be fucking "ex girl", even in ol girl's presence while Jenny ripped him a new one! Talking bout " she went through my phone and got your number!" "Well that's even more proof how p@ssy he is, he got you all out there like that" I screamed!
Whew !I get heated just thinking about the level of disrespect! So you already know how mad I got when Jenny told me they got back together!!!" What?! You take him back with no real time in the Dog house, are you serious? You know the only way to train a dog is to rub his nose in his shit! Yelling is useless!" I got so mad I told her I can't speak to you anymore, I need to take a break from our friendship! I just felt at the time like that's the only thing I could do or say, to such insane behavior! I'm going to act crazy too! Am I wrong? Well let me say this I know I'm wrong to a certain extent, because our friendship is more important. And I'm sure she knows if she needs me I would be there in a second but I wanted to ring her neck! I seem to have a hard time sitting on the sidelines watching a freak show!
What should I do? Am I totally F-ed up? Does anyone understand where I'm coming from? Or should I run to Jenny with my tail between my legs and tell her Sorry :(
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